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Legacy Decisions

Updated: Jan 29

Ego Decisions vs. Legacy Decisions

Legacy is a tricky word by definition. On one side, a legacy is something you pour yourself into building that will last long after you’re gone. On the other side, for that legacy to stand the test of time it must impact others. With this duality in mind, it becomes a double-edged sword. Legacy can drive good leaders to do selfish things, but it can also drive people to take on new challenges and put the good of the team above their own. In my experience, the fork in the road comes when a leader comes face to face with that little voice in their head called ego.



Prior to founding Edge Leadership Academy, I spent the better part of a decade as a strength and conditioning coach at both the high school and collegiate levels. If you asked me then I would’ve told you I was in it for the right reasons and I was. The student-athletes I had the opportunity to impact were always at the center of what I did. Now that I am in business and consulting, my clients are always at the center of what I do. It’s always been simple to me, add the most value possible to whatever environment I am placed in. Now, before you proclaim me Saint David, lets unpack the rest of the motivation. I am also driven by a deep fear of failure and a desire to be the absolute best at what I do. These are selfish motivations that ultimately serve a bigger purpose; in this case, my clients and the people who engage with my content.

In the months leading up to the decision to leave the coaching world, I found myself thinking about things differently. I was well aware that, on some level, the hesitancy I was feeling to leave coaching and start Edge was not entirely due to altruistic motives. I was hearing the voice of my ego trying to convince me that I should stay. Stay where you’re comfortable and not exposed, stay where you know you can feel success, stay where you know the outside world “respects” what you do. These thoughts conflicted with my main goal; make the most positive contribution of value possible on the biggest stage. That meant moving on and building a new platform to provide value.


So, what does this little trip into my psyche have to do with leadership? In the movie Frankenstein, the main character states “I have love in me the likes of which you can scarcely imagine and rage the likes of which you would not believe. If I cannot satisfy one, I will indulge the other.” This quote exemplifies what leadership is about; making your dark side work for you and not against you. It is acknowledging that selfish desire to be great, but knowing you are only as great as what you put into others and ultimately the world. Invest in yourself so that you can add value to others.

Leaders don’t submit to their ego driven decisions, but rather make what I call “legacy decisions”. This type of decision making gives leaders the freedom to take risks. The opportunity to pour into those around you reassures you that there is no loss to be had. Legacy thinking is about taking a short term “loss” (as described by your ego) that will create a long-term better environment for your people and organization. Step outside yourself, think about how you want to be remembered, and make legacy decisions.


“On your last day on earth, the person you were comes face to face with the person you wanted to be. Make sure you like both.”

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